Change the World!!!
- Jul 29, 2025
- 15 min read
Updated: Jan 31
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Who is going to change the World, if not you?
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As a parent, I want my kids to understand that spreading love and positivity is really important and something they should take seriously. In a world that's often full of negativity and hostility, we need to counteract that with positivity and compassion, moving towards love, kindness, and understanding.
To make this happen, we, as caregivers, need to live by the values we want them to see. As a caregiver, showing love, empathy, and respect every day teaches our kids that these are key to a meaningful life. Through kind acts, helping out in the community, and showing compassion, we prove that love is something we can put into action.
Let's have a chat with our kids about the world's problems and unfairness, so they get why it's important to stand up for what's right. By encouraging them to share their thoughts and feelings, we're helping them become active individuals who are ready to stand up for love and justice. Change starts with us, and we need to actively work toward a better world.
When we show our kids what responsibility looks like, we're helping them make a positive impact, whether it's in the everyday stuff or bigger community projects. By doing this as a team, we can raise a generation that chooses love over hate, making the future brighter and kinder for all.
Here are a few ways you can help
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We CAN Change Who We Once Were
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My husband can definitely back me up on this—I’m a lot more positive, and things at home have really improved. We don't have as many shouting matches now, just the typical sibling arguments, and no major meltdowns. He’s also working on keeping his cool. People often comment on how kind, loving, and respectful our kids are, which is great to hear. Even before tablets were everywhere, they behaved well at dinners, which is pretty rare these days.
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Giving to the community!
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Oh the Simple Things We Take For Granted!
I'm sharing this because it really resonated with me, and maybe someone else needs to hear it today.
Back in my early 20s, I got involved with my church's food donation program to help out the community. Our goal was all about building connections and sharing some love. Each week, we'd gather donations and hand out food and essentials.
In Section 8 neighborhoods, kids would come up to us looking for some attention, which really showed how much they needed care in those tough situations. They would flock to us like they were pigeons and we were bird seed. They saw the box of food and they were grabbing stuff out of it while we were trying to get them out of the vehicles. They were so hungry. Seeing families struggle, especially with addiction, was really heartbreaking. It made me realize that just handing out food wasn’t enough. We needed to tackle bigger issues like poverty, addiction, and family instability.
As we were walking away to get into our vehicles, the same kids from early came running up to us, begging us to take them with us. My heart cried for them, I sobbed all the way home.
These experiences opened my eyes to the societal problems that keep poverty and neglect going. It made it clear that we need to come together as a community, with empathy and compassion, to address these bigger issues.
Some parents misuse resources, and it affects their kids' futures, showing where the system fails. Government policies often get bogged down in bureaucracy, leaving vulnerable kids stuck in a cycle of despair. The lack of resources, support, and education just keeps poverty and hopelessness alive.
These kids face challenges they shouldn't have to, looking for stability and a brighter future. Instead, they're trapped in tough realities made worse by failing systems. We need to see this injustice and push for changes that focus on their needs, making sure they have a real chance to thrive, not just get by.
The Soup Kitchen
I told my 16-year-old son about this tonight. I hope it affects you like I saw how it affected him. During that same time as above, we went to a soup kitchen. Though this was about 20 years ago, I still remember it well. I parked my car and was about to open the door to get out when all my car doors opened and kids piled inside, begging me to take them with me. My heart broke into tiny pieces. How could I say no to these beautiful kids? But obviously, I had to. This was one of the few times having a sweet tooth came in handy. I had some candy I was able to bribe them out of my car with.
Later, I found out one of the little boys was beaten on a regular basis, and though CPS was constantly involved, nothing ever changed for him.
These moments really stuck with me, and I'm super grateful I got to see them, so I can talk about it.
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A Special Bond
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I love chatting with my daughter about the awesome folks at the nursing home where I work. Their lives are full of incredible stories. She's super excited to join in the activities, which makes me really happy. It's a great way for her to learn about compassion, empathy, and community. The residents love these visits; they bring so much joy and remind them of their own pasts. We make it a weekly thing, playing games like balloon toss to keep everyone active. These moments teach my daughter patience and understanding, showing her just how important human connection is. Every visit is a chance to learn about life stories, strength, and kindness, enriching both the residents' lives and our community.
When my daughter isn’t around, the place feels a bit dull, but she lights up the room with her smiles and energy. She connects with everyone, making them feel special, and the staff joke about hiring her for her spirit-lifting talents. Kids naturally bring joy to older folks, reminding them of simpler times. My daughter is a perfect example of this, spreading warmth and creating shared experiences that connect generations. Her interactions remind us of the bonds that can grow across ages.
Linking daycares with nursing homes would be amazing. Kids would learn empathy and respect, brightening seniors' days and boosting their mental health. It would be a fantastic learning opportunity, with kids picking up history and life skills, while seniors get a taste of modern trends. This exchange bridges the generational gap and builds a stronger community. Combining daycares and nursing homes would promote growth, understanding, and happiness for everyone involved.
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A Day at the Cat Café
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When we checked out this adorable cat café, we walked into a cozy spot with areas for both playful kittens and relaxed adult cats. My daughter was super into the lively kitten room at first, just like everyone else, totally entertained by their playful antics. Even though she was a bit unsure, I encouraged her to explore the quieter area with the older cats. Originally, she had a meltdown because she insisted we see the kittens. It got to the point where I just said we either go in the adult cat section or we go home. So, she dejectedly agreed.
She quickly realized that the older cats needed love just as much. Over the next 45 minutes, she hung out with the adult cats, getting to know their personalities and what each one needed. Her kindness and patience really shone through as she made each cat feel special. By the end, she not only enjoyed the playful energy of the younger adult cats but also came to appreciate the relaxed companionship of the older ones, finding their laid-back vibe pretty charming.
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A Growing Heart
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My little girl is growing up so fast and turning into an amazing young lady at just 8 (actually, she's 9 now). She's got this "old soul" vibe—wise, smart, and super social. Unlike me, who gets worn out by too many people, she loves hanging out and chatting with everyone, always smiling. When she was only one, we took her to a social event, and she would boldly walk up to people and just stand there, staring at them, showing off her natural social skills. She's like a mini version of me, but without the cynicism, always keeping a positive attitude.
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Moments That Matter
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I've learned a ton about inclusion and friendship from parents of kids with autism. Some have even thanked me because my daughter just naturally includes their kids and makes sure everyone feels like they belong. During a playdate, she made sure to include her friend's autistic brother, showing that friendship truly knows no bounds.
Life's packed with moments that shape how we think and the choices we make. These times can lead to new friendships or push us to chase our dreams, reminding us to enjoy the now and value our relationships.
As a mom, I've definitely dealt with my share of criticism, but I've picked up lessons from my mistakes and always aim to improve for my kids. No matter the negativity, I keep a positive outlook. My four kids are my inspiration, and I truly believe they'll grow up to be kind and empathetic. By embracing what makes each of them special, I hope they'll share kindness with everyone they meet. ✨ 💜
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Lists
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People Who Single-Handedly Changed the World for Good
George Washington A simple man that LOVED dogs)
Queen Elizabeth 1 (Where the State of Virginia got its name)
Marie Antoinette (Not all change is good change, but then again look what happened to her, same with the next one).
Adolf Hitler (bad change)
Queen Mary (Bloody Mary) (Bad Change)
Thomas Edison
Alexander Graham Bell
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Books 📚
The Bible (I reference this particular religious text the most due to the fact it’s the one I have the most experience with).
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Songs 🎤
“One Man Can Change The World” - Big Sean (ft. Kanye West and John Legend (What a trio!)
“A Change is Gonna Come” - Sam Cooke (I definitely believe this, It’s due time. The pendulum needs to swing back to good before evil finally wins for good. I think others are starting to really see it too).
“One Love” - Bob Marley and The Wailers (Talk about a man that was all about some peace and love. RIP Bob Marley!!)
“Where’s the Love?” - Hanson (Even 3 teens from Tulsa, Oklahoma knew that)
“I’d Like to Teach the World to Sing” - The Hillside Singers
“People Loving People” - Garth Brooks (Apparently he got it)
Most songs I got were from this website
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Movies/Shows/Documentaries 🍿
Most movies came from this website
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Bible verses about changing the world for the better ✝️
Romans 12:2: - "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will."
Ephesians 4:22-24 - "You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness."
John 13:34-35:- "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."
Matthew 5:16:- "In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven." - Even though I am not a religious person, this particular verse has always been a favorite of mine.
Galatians 6:2 - “Carry each other’s burdens, and so you will fulfill the law of Christ.”
Hebrews 13:16 - “Don’t forget to do good and to share what you have, because God is pleased with these kinds of sacrifices.”
John 15:12 - “This is my commandment: love each other just as I have loved you.”
Matthew 5:42 - “Give to those who ask, and don’t refuse those who wish to borrow from you.”
Proverbs 19:17 - “Those who are gracious to the poor lend to the Lord, and the Lord will fully repay them.”
Romans 12:13 - “Contribute to the needs of God’s people, and welcome strangers into your home.”
Proverbs 3:27 - “Don’t withhold good from someone who deserves it, when it is in your power to do so.”
Phillipians 2:4 - “Instead of each person watching out for their own good, watch out for what is better for others.”
Matthew 25:44-45 - “Then they will reply, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison and didn’t do anything to help you?’ Then he will answer, ‘I assure you that when you haven’t done it for one of the least of these, you haven’t done it for me.'”
Luke 3:10-11 - “The crowds asked him, ‘What then should we do?’ He answered, ‘Whoever has two shirts must share with the one who has none, and whoever has food must do the same.'”
James 2:14-17 - “My brothers and sisters, what good is it if people say they have faith but do nothing to show it? Claiming to have faith can’t save anyone, can it? Imagine a brother or sister who is naked and never has enough food to eat. What if one of you said, ‘Go in peace! Stay warm! Have a nice meal!?’ What good is it if you don’t actually give them what their body needs? In the same way, faith is dead when it doesn’t result in faithful activity.”
Hebrews 6:10 - “God isn’t unjust so that he forgets your efforts and the love you have shown for his name’s sake when you served and continue to serve God’s holy people.”
Matthew 10:8 - “Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse those with skin diseases, and throw out demons. You received without having to pay. Therefore, give without demanding payment.”
Deuteronomy 15:11 - “Poor persons will never disappear from the earth. That’s why I’m giving you this command: you must open your hand generously to your fellow Israelites, to the needy among you, and to the poor who live with you in your land.”
Proverbs 11:25 - “Generous persons will prosper; those who refresh others will themselves be refreshed.”
Deuteronomy 22:4 - “Don’t just watch your fellow Israelite’s donkey or ox fall down in the road and do nothing about it. You must help your fellow Israelite get the animal up again.”
Luke 6:38 - “Give, and it will be given to you. A good portion — packed down, firmly shaken, and overflowing — will fall into your lap. The portion you give will determine the portion you receive in return.”
1 John 3:17 - “But if someone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but refuses to help — how can the love of God dwell in a person like that?”
Proverbs 22:9 - “Happy are generous people, because they give some of their food to the poor.”
Luke 12:33 - “Sell your possessions and give to those in need. Make for yourselves wallets that don’t wear out — a treasure in heaven that never runs out. No thief comes near there, and no moth destroys.”
Acts 20:35 - “In everything I have shown you that, by working hard, we must help the weak. In this way we remember the Lord Jesus’ words: ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.'”
1 Thessalonians 5:11 - “So continue encouraging each other and building each other up, just like you are doing already.”
Ephesians 4:32 - “Be kind, compassionate, and forgiving to each other, in the same way God forgave you in Christ.”
Leviticus 25:35 - “If one of your fellow Israelites faces financial difficulty and is in a shaky situation with you, you must assist them as you would an immigrant or foreign guest so that they can survive among you.”
Proverbs 29:7 - “The righteous know the rights of the poor, but the wicked don’t understand.”
Isaiah 25:4 - “You have been a refugee for the poor, a refugee for the needy in distress, a hiding place from the storm, a shade from the heat. When the breath of tyrants is like a winter storm.”
Isaiah 58:10 - “If you open your heart to the hungry, and provide abundantly for those who are afflicted, your light will shine in the darkness, and your gloom will be like the noon.”
Mark 10:21 - “Jesus looked at him carefully and loved him. He said, ‘You are lacking one thing. Go, sell what you own, and give the money to the poor. Then you will have treasure in heaven. And
come, follow me.”
Galations 6:9 - “Let’s not get tired of doing good, because in time we’ll have a harvest if we don’t give up.”
Isaiah 1:17 - “Learn to do good. Seek justice: help the oppressed; defend the orphan; plead for the window.”
That’s just some of them. Seems to me that God really wants you to help change the world. Are you willing?
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Quotes
“I love that we are able to pick up trash and help keep the world clean, I just hate that we HAVE to do it.” - My 8 year old during a trash pick up escapade
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has. - Margaret Mead
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